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    Winning the War Within: Dealing with Negative Self-Talk
    Author: Gail Hall, LMSW, DCSW
    From Eating Disorders Today

    “There’s a battle going on inside my head—one voice tells me I don’t need to eat, while the other says I should follow my meal plan.”
    “It’s like I have an angel sitting on one shoulder and a devil on the other.”
    “I feel like I’m two people—one who knows I’m really in trouble and one who feels stronger and more powerful each day.”
    Almost every person I’ve seen with an eating disorder has reported, or can relate to, the concept of this internal struggle... Read More

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November 29, 2007

Holiday Tips for Helpers

Our Thanksgiving is over, and in a few short weeks, we'll be celebrating Christmas.  As we all know, this season brings special challenges for those individuals struggling with eating disorders and their families.  Lots of activity and family togetherness, along with special holiday meals, can raise anxiety as they are anticipated and depression when they are over.  Each year my staff and I spend extra time on the importance of good self care during this stressful period.  But how about those of us who are the helpers?

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November 08, 2007

Response from Carolyn Costin

Carolyn Costin, Director of Monte Nido and Affiliates, and author of The Eating Disorder Sourcebook and !00 Questions and Answers About Eating Disorders responded to my last post about Professional Boundaries with these words:

"The topic of our relationship as clinicians to our clients is always a hard one to discuss. There are so many reasons for us all to be concerned about this dynamic. From the very beginning in my work with eating disorder clients I found that they needed to hear from me as a person, not just as a therapist. Although I am careful, I do talk about myself and share from my experiences . . . I do not share the horrors and dirty details of my illness. I discuss strategies for overcoming it that worked for me.

I also maintain contact after clients have left treatment . . . if a client emails or calls I respond; I also occasionally reach out to them to see how they are doing. It is possible to maintain boundaries: it is the nature of the relationship that is important. They always know they are clients or former clients, not friends.. . take the client who called after 7 years of recovery who was in town with her new baby and wanted to see me. Should I say 'Make an appointment"? For me my humanness overrides that silly thought and I agree to a cup of coffee together. . .

The key, for me, is that although there are guidelines, at some point we also have to trust the things that we know. . . . I do my best to keep true to my profession and my humanness at the same time."

Thanks Carolyn, for your wise and thoughtful response. I'm looking forward to hearing from other colleagues. Until next time, blessings! Gail Hall

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